Comments on: Nothing hurts more than matters of the heart http://beigelblog.com/nothing-hurts-more-than-matters-of-the-heart/ OR "my journey to making a million bucks..." Sat, 31 Jul 2010 18:37:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: emilly http://beigelblog.com/nothing-hurts-more-than-matters-of-the-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-1937 emilly Tue, 24 Nov 2009 13:07:03 +0000 http://beigelblog.com/?p=451#comment-1937 o.k. – had to comment. Sorry if this may sound a bit rough to your broken heart – Quit playing the victim part. I don’t know you but it doesn't become you at all. I get why you feel bad about the whole situation but pick yourself up and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Shit happens. This really is not complicated – basically this 2 people your "friend" and ex don't really care about you and were willing to pay the price of your friendship for sex – well then – you should collect. Also I must say that you don't learn much from experience – you wrote that you always seem to go back to that ex and now you don't think it will happen again soon – instead of writing – "I'm sure it will never happen ever again". You're setting yourself up for failure so don't be surprised if you go back to her once again and get heart once again. As for the good guy bad guy theory : life is not "ncis" . you should live the way you want, and you should do the things you want to do – you just need to remember that everything has a price and it all comes down to whether you are willing to pay that price or not. In your case, your "friends" were willing and as I said before – you should definitely collect!!! o.k. – had to comment. Sorry if this may sound a bit rough to your broken heart –
Quit playing the victim part. I don’t know you but it doesn’t become you at all. I get why you feel bad about the whole situation but pick yourself up and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Shit happens. This really is not complicated – basically this 2 people your “friend” and ex don’t really care about you and were willing to pay the price of your friendship for sex – well then – you should collect.
Also I must say that you don’t learn much from experience – you wrote that you always seem to go back to that ex and now you don’t think it will happen again soon – instead of writing – “I’m sure it will never happen ever again”. You’re setting yourself up for failure so don’t be surprised if you go back to her once again and get heart once again.

As for the good guy bad guy theory : life is not “ncis” . you should live the way you want, and you should do the things you want to do – you just need to remember that everything has a price and it all comes down to whether you are willing to pay that price or not.
In your case, your “friends” were willing and as I said before – you should definitely collect!!!

]]> By: ifat http://beigelblog.com/nothing-hurts-more-than-matters-of-the-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-1935 ifat Tue, 24 Nov 2009 08:59:15 +0000 http://beigelblog.com/?p=451#comment-1935 what about expanding the field, instead of just 2 perhaps 'extremes' to be, like you suggested with the best players in poker go according to their inner rules....instead of playing the 'nice/bad guy' part, why not create yourself, and work according to YOUR inner rules and guidelines... like the domino affect, if one pushes me and i push back another....all of my dominos are left on faced down on the floor..... its when there's something steady, rigid, that changes the course of the dominoes, shapes it to something more like an attractionor art, the movement of the dominoes become amusing, interesting and playful ....resembling life.. what about expanding the field, instead of just 2 perhaps ‘extremes’ to be, like you suggested with the best players in poker go according to their inner rules….instead of playing the ‘nice/bad guy’ part, why not create yourself, and work according to YOUR inner rules and guidelines…
like the domino affect, if one pushes me and i push back another….all of my dominos are left on faced down on the floor…..
its when there’s something steady, rigid, that changes the course of the dominoes, shapes it to something more like an attractionor art, the movement of the dominoes become amusing, interesting and playful ….resembling life..

]]> By: Liat http://beigelblog.com/nothing-hurts-more-than-matters-of-the-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-1930 Liat Mon, 23 Nov 2009 22:21:33 +0000 http://beigelblog.com/?p=451#comment-1930 ONLY "good guy". He's the one who gets the good girl. Even if she's less hot than than the bad girl, it's still the better choice. ..no? ONLY “good guy”. He’s the one who gets the good girl. Even if she’s less hot than than the bad girl, it’s still the better choice.

..no?

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