What is love

I just came back from a movie called “Valentine’s Day”. Yes, it’s a chick flick, and a really good one. For some reason I seem to be very fond of chick flicks (maybe it’s because I’m secretly gay….), but this one was different, at least a little.

First of all it was good, it had  a lot of good actors and the storyline although not brilliant was nice and fluent. But it also (of course) talked about love, and it got me thinking.

When I was a teenager I was one of those naive kids who blindly believed in love. I thought I would one day meet this girl that would just make me fall for her head over heels and we will get married and have lots of kids. Later on, I “sobered up” and started realizing that things don’t work that way. My notion of love became more vague, less thrilling, more low keyed. I guess it was because my heart was broken so many times, or maybe because I dealt too much with the pickup arts that it screwed my mind.

I don’t know, anyway, lately I seem to be turning back into that little boy, with his crazy notions of love at first site. I have to say that I kind of like that, I like the fact that after so many heartbreaks, bad relationships and dating I can still believe in this magnificent abstract notion.

I do hope I fall head over hills for someone, I hope that she will be everything I ever dreamed of and that I will never question myself again once I meet her. I’m pretty sure it will happen, it’s just one of those thing I know.

Well, at least I have this “recorded on tape” so I can check if my intuition’s right in the future.

Have a great night, and an even better day tomorrow.

Ofir.